Do you respect a woman who has sex on the first night? Can you build a relationship? Me personally i would pursue that relationship. "If you cant respect your body itself how can you have any respect in general? How can you respect your man well enough not to cheat? Now some people might look at it from a totally different aspect such as myself. If two human beings meet each other,vibe,go on a date and decide to smash on the first night then thats what it is. That doesn't make you a Hoe/Whore. That just mean you guys just vibed on a physical level. Some people has that affect on people.